Before you reach out to book sessions, ask questions, serve, or chat via paid call/text lines, be sure to read the FAQs and learn more about Aviva:

“What are your favorite kinks/fetishes? What do you like to do with your subs?”

BDSM and sessions are really about an energetic exchange for me, so what I enjoy with a sub has a lot to do with the individual. Different people bring out different moods/desires in me. For example if I am playing with a masochist, my sadistic side comes out more. I feed off of the energy of my subs, so generally the more they are into an activity, the more I enjoy engaging with it. That said, there are certain kinks I almost always love to include and am very comfortable engaging in: foot fetish, humiliation, objectification, findom, CBT & ball busting, chastity, denial, restraints, and roleplays are just a few of my favorite activities.

“What are your hard limits?”

Hard limits are activities that I do not offer or are not interested in with clients. These boundaries allow me to feel comfortable with my subs so I can fully show up for our interactions. I do not offer nudity or sexual services. You will not see my breasts or genitals. I do not allow clients to intimately touch me- you will not touch my breasts, ass, or pussy. I do not allow anyone to touch any part of me without explicit verbal permission. I do not “pleasure” myself in sessions. I do not put my mouth on any part of my subs. I do not allow any client fluids on my body, clothes, or shoes. Regarding sessions, I am not into blood play and I do not change dirty diapers. If your only session interests are “joi” or “edging”, be prepared to pay $1000/hr if I choose to see you at all. I do not tolerate any disrespectful, creepy, or annoying behavior.

“What should I know before applying for a session?”

I get many messages and inquiries every day from hopeful subs and clients. Many of the messages don’t warrant a response from me and go straight to trash. I will only respond to your inquiry if you have shown me you can follow protocol, are respectful and thoughtful, and our interests are aligned. I use the information from your form to determine if we are a good fit or not, so you need to actually put thoughtful information down if you want me to consider you. If you really want your inquiry to stand out, send it with a tribute to show your good intentions and appreciation for my time. One-word responses in your contact form, non-information, bad grammar, or saying you have “no hard limits” are all quick ways to get your inquiry deleted without a response. I also suggest checking out my Twitter and reading my website in full so you have a good idea of who I am and if we are aligned before reaching out. All session inquiries are made by filling out a contact form.

“How should I prepare for an in person session?”

I am a very hygienic person, so I expect you to arrive clean with fresh breath. Wash your whole body with soap, especially your ass. Do not smoke any cigarettes beforehand, and do not wear cologne or strong scents. If you really want to leave a good impression with me, it’s always a good idea to arrive with a gift. You can ask me what I want, or get some ideas here. Make sure you understand the arrival instructions, and show up right on time (not early and not late). Be sure to have eaten something before the session and stay well hydrated.

“Are there any type of clients you don’t see?”

I see clients regardless race, gender, sexuality, disabilities, or appearances (seriously there is no need to mention you’re a fit, white male). However I do NOT see clients younger than 21 years old, or anyone who is misogynist, disrespectful, inconsiderate, bad communicators, or anyone I don’t enjoy spending time with.

“How did you get into professional domination?”

I’ve always been naturally kinky and craved control, so I started exploring BDSM in my personal life at a young age. When I saw Mr. and Mrs. Smith, in the scene where Angelina Jolie pretends to be a Dominatrix, something clicked for me and I realized I wanted to be a woman like that. I researched dungeons in NYC, interviewed, and started my training at one. It’s been a wild ride since then and I’m so thankful to work in this industry.